{"id":229,"date":"2022-06-12T16:49:55","date_gmt":"2022-06-12T15:49:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.ansheela.be\/?p=229"},"modified":"2022-06-12T17:05:31","modified_gmt":"2022-06-12T16:05:31","slug":"17-papas-en-vaders","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.ansheela.be\/fr\/2022\/06\/12\/17-papas-en-vaders\/","title":{"rendered":"17. Papa&#8217;s en vaders"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Les papas et les p\u00e8res<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Le papa indien de mes r\u00eaves,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Plus,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mon papa belge, parti depuis 6 ans,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Plus,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Le papa de mon coeur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Le papa de mes r\u00eaves:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mon p\u00e8re indien, c'est l\u00e0 que tout a commenc\u00e9.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Et pourtant, j'y ressens beaucoup plus d'amour pour ma m\u00e8re.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Que s'est-il pass\u00e9? Pourquoi mon p\u00e8re est moins pr\u00e9sent dans mes sentiments?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mon p\u00e8re belge a repris le relais ici.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Je l'aimais tant quand j'\u00e9tais enfant,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Il \u00e9tait mon rocher,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mon grand soutien.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Et il y a bien s\u00fbr aussi le p\u00e8re de mes enfants.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mon mari, l'amour de ma vie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Il offre le n\u00e9cessaire \u00e0 nos enfants,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ce qui n'a pas toujours \u00e9t\u00e9 aussi \u00e9vident avec moi dans le pass\u00e9.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>R\u00e9cemment, j'ai aussi rencontr\u00e9 mon \"p\u00e8re cycogne\".<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Un homme int\u00e8gre, avec un regard critique sur le pass\u00e9 de mon histoire d'adoption.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Il \u00e9tait \u00e0 mes c\u00f4t\u00e9s dans le b\u00e2timent du Parlement jeudi dernier,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Et peut-\u00eatre qu'il se sent responsable,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>pour m'avoir fait venir en Belgique.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Maintenant, je ressens surtout une belle compr\u00e9hension,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Et notre amiti\u00e9 en est une qui \u00e9volue doucement.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ces 4 hommes, ont tous un r\u00f4le dans mon histoire.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Et petit \u00e0 petit, je trouve ma place,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dans chaque situation et dans chaque langue.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00a9 An Sheela Jacobs, le 12 juin 2022<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"576\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/www.ansheela.be\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/20220612_Papa-576x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-231\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blog.ansheela.be\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/20220612_Papa-576x1024.jpg 576w, https:\/\/blog.ansheela.be\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/20220612_Papa-169x300.jpg 169w, https:\/\/blog.ansheela.be\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/20220612_Papa-768x1366.jpg 768w, https:\/\/blog.ansheela.be\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/20220612_Papa-864x1536.jpg 864w, https:\/\/blog.ansheela.be\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/20220612_Papa-1152x2048.jpg 1152w, https:\/\/blog.ansheela.be\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/20220612_Papa-7x12.jpg 7w, https:\/\/blog.ansheela.be\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/20220612_Papa-scaled.jpg 1440w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 576px) 100vw, 576px\" \/><figcaption>Avec mon papa en Belgique<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.ansheela.be\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/20220517-Etienne-An-Sheela-1024x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-230\" width=\"490\" height=\"490\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blog.ansheela.be\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/20220517-Etienne-An-Sheela-1024x1024.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/blog.ansheela.be\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/20220517-Etienne-An-Sheela-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/blog.ansheela.be\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/20220517-Etienne-An-Sheela-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/blog.ansheela.be\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/20220517-Etienne-An-Sheela-768x768.jpg 768w, https:\/\/blog.ansheela.be\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/20220517-Etienne-An-Sheela-1536x1536.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/blog.ansheela.be\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/20220517-Etienne-An-Sheela-12x12.jpg 12w, https:\/\/blog.ansheela.be\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/20220517-Etienne-An-Sheela-80x80.jpg 80w, https:\/\/blog.ansheela.be\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/20220517-Etienne-An-Sheela.jpg 2048w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 490px) 100vw, 490px\" \/><figcaption>Avec mon p\u00e8re cygogne Etienne \u00e0 Bruxelles<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.ansheela.be\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/20181228_Kolkata_Sishu-Bhavan-768x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-236\" width=\"483\" height=\"643\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blog.ansheela.be\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/20181228_Kolkata_Sishu-Bhavan-768x1024.jpg 768w, https:\/\/blog.ansheela.be\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/20181228_Kolkata_Sishu-Bhavan-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/blog.ansheela.be\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/20181228_Kolkata_Sishu-Bhavan-1152x1536.jpg 1152w, https:\/\/blog.ansheela.be\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/20181228_Kolkata_Sishu-Bhavan-1536x2048.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/blog.ansheela.be\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/20181228_Kolkata_Sishu-Bhavan-9x12.jpg 9w, https:\/\/blog.ansheela.be\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/20181228_Kolkata_Sishu-Bhavan-scaled.jpg 1920w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 483px) 100vw, 483px\" \/><figcaption>Avec Ivan \u00e0 Kolkata (photo prise en 2018)<\/figcaption><\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Papa\u2019s en vaders De Indische papa van mijn dromen, Plus, Mijn Belgische papa, al sinds 6 jaar vervlogen, Plus De papa van mijn hart. De papa van mijn dromen: Mijn Indische vader, daar begon alles mee. En toch voel ik veel meer liefde voor mijn moeder ginder. Wat is gebeurd? Waarom is mijn vader \u2018minder\u2019? Mijn Belgische papa, pikte de<\/p>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":232,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":true,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_s2mail":"yes","footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-229","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ansheela.be\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/229","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ansheela.be\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ansheela.be\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ansheela.be\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ansheela.be\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=229"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ansheela.be\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/229\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":237,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ansheela.be\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/229\/revisions\/237"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ansheela.be\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/232"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ansheela.be\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=229"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ansheela.be\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=229"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ansheela.be\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=229"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}